By Kevin ImpelmanIn a recent article in SHRM's HR Magazine, Tough Boss or Workplace Bully?, they cite several studies that place the prevalence of workplace bullying anywhere between 37-57% in the American workforce. Some research actually reports higher figures, but there are pretty good odds that you have worked for a "bully", know of a "bully", or you are one. Considering the ubiquity of workplace bullies, the author of this article sought to understand what separates a "bully" from just a "tough" boss.
She found that what distinguishes the two are that tough bosses are described as being performance focused, treating others fairly, and are oriented to the organization. Bullies, however, actively misuse their power and authority, promote their own self-interest over the organization, and are unfair or inconsistent in their treatment of others. The author concludes that what really separates bullying from just being tough on others is intent or malice. If a manager is intentionally provoking someone to cause distress then it would be considered "bullying". Tough bosses may be abrasive at times, but it is spread fairly across all employees and the intent is to drive organizational results.
I think the research to distinguish "bullies" from "tough" bosses is important and commendable. However, I find that individuals float between the two depending on the circumstance (e.g., under stress, a "tough" boss may be more abrasive than usual). I also believe that everyone has a different interpretation and threshold of what is "abusive". In order to prevent a difficult relationship from developing, leaders need to have good insight and a pulse on their team to ensure their behaviors are not interpreted to be overbearing or harsh.
I am frankly concerned that in the current economy where people are trying to do "more with less" and creating results is paramount, managers will be rewarded to achieve short term results regardless of how they get it. This mindset and practice will get the "tough" bosses AND "bullies" promoted (unless you follow the recommendations below). The highly skilled manipulators will continue to rise to the top, where their insidious behavior will become more public and even more dangerous to the company.
So what are you supposed to do about it?? Before hiring or promoting someone - do your due diligence. When evaluating potential to the next level, instead of just reviewing one's financial results, you may want to ask someone about how they got results. Consult their peers and subordinates to get a holistic view of the person instead of just consulting the balance sheet. Yes, people are subjective, and yes the balance sheet is factual, but leaders manage people - not numbers. People do the work, people engage others, people create long term results. People also experience stress, lose energy, slow productivity, and eventually leave a company - no wait, they leave their Boss. And when talent leaves your company - it does show up on the balance sheet.
If you're interested in this topic, I would encourage you to read more about recent studies on"Toxic Leadership" on SIOP's website. Feel free to comment on your own experiences with bullies.